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The musk is a very fragrant material that comes from the body
of a male animal called a musk. This kind of animal is a bit
like a deer, so it is very rare and expensive. This kind of
animal is a medicine used in Oriental medicine. And in
humanity when they want to praise something holy, they often
say the sentence:
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- There is Musk Natural Aroma.
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Mean:
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- Where there is musk, that place smells good aroma.
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There is a fragrance in the body that is naturally fragrant.
There is no need to buy perfume to spray around. If you have
something good, such as sincerity and help, you don't need to
show ourselves a word, but from the beginning of the village
to the end of the hamlet will slowly know, and maybe one day a
man the report goes to the house asking for an interview, so
the whole country knows. But do you know, if you have musk,
how does your fragrance spread everywhere? Spread in the air
like the fragrance of orchids, incense of lilies?
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Your incense spreads far, spreading through people's mouths.
People tell each other, people call each other, people talk
about your good characteristics, of course, both good and bad.
And who is this? Who can know about you to say many good
things about you, as well as bad things?
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Of course, those are the ones closest to you. Those people
are:
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- Parents, brothers, and sisters in the house, relatives of
aunts and uncles, friends and neighbors.
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These are the people who know you the most, and when they talk
about you good and bad things, others will believe. People who
know you talk about good and bad things, so people who never
know you become aware of us through that information. Then
these new people transmit information to others. The line of
rumors kept going, and no one needed to set up.
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Sometimes rumors start from people in this neighborhood who
don't seem to be as polished as journalists. For example, your
mother might talk about you:
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- Oh, that child is foolish, he has a little money, so he can
feed some beggars, he doesn't have a penny. Talking is gentle,
rustic.
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Such rumors, going through many mouths of people can become:
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- She is honest and loves others very much.
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And of course, the goodness is rumored, the bad is rumored:
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- Oh, that guy, he is the number one liar, believe he has the
day he sold your house. I am his classmate, I know him very
well.
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Unfortunately, there are those of us who do not appreciate
this close affection. So they tend to abuse, disrespect, keep
their promises, so they are willing to lie to others about
their close people, hoping that they will become famous
someday. It is a complete lack of reality.
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The reputation of good and bad about you is always from those
close to you. Among those close, there are a few people who
may have a disagreement with you, but most people will have a
fairly accurate view of you. So, you only need to treat people
close to you every day like family, friends, colleagues, and
subordinates, naturally, it will have a way to go far away for
others to know.
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The FBI is the US federal police investigation agency when it
comes to hiring a new employee, often sending people to
investigate this person's identity. The investigator always
knocks on the neighbor's door to inquire about that person,
and especially always talks to his ex-wives, ex-husband,
divorced, because they have a lot of accurate information and
sometimes like to let the FBI know because those people are
still resentful. If a person often deceives a family member or
often interferes with a neighbor, the FBI may not dare to use
that person.
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In the US politicians are often discredited due to adultery.
Sometimes people argue:
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- He's adultery, it's his own business, as long as he works
well, there's nothing to criticize his private life.
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And the rebuttal is always:
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- His wife and children that he deceived, who can trust him.
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The main idea is still: If people close to us do not dare to
believe us, then more distant people cannot believe us. It is
also another interpretation of Confucius who said according to
the principle:
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- Cultivate yourself, make your family happy, artistic
leadership in a country, bring peace to everyone in the world.
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Looking back, we often have problems with our neighbors, and
we complain that our neighbors are bad, backward, greedy. But
the problem is not how good or bad our neighbors are, it's
their business, not ours. Our problem is how we deal with our
neighbors whoever they are.
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So are colleagues. We often complain that our colleagues are
bad, our company is bad. But whether our colleagues are bad or
good, our problem is how we treat them. People 's reputation
is often the one - way, or more correctly, the one - way
manners are radiating to the aroma. It is rumored that:
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- She is very nice to everyone.
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People do not say:
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- She's good with good people and bad with bad people.
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Or:
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- He is very honest
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Without rumors:
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- He is honest with the honest person and lies to the liar.
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The act of reciprocity such as donut cakes sent, pizza sent
back, is always very normal, there is nothing to say to the
people, so it cannot emit the fragrance. Only one-way actions,
Honest to everyone, righteous to everyone, humble to everyone,
through which our practitioners all know in the Dhammapada,
the chapter says About flowers, the Buddha said:
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- The scent of flowers, whether any of the most fragrant
flowers in this world, cannot fly against the wind, only the
virtuous scent of true people, can fly against the wind, and
fly all over thousands of directions.
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Thus, the fragrance that holds the precepts of those who
follow the teachings of Buddha is the source of the fragrance.
So we need to remember two basic things:
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1- All our good and bad reputations come from the people
closest to us every day, and
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2- The things that make reputation go away are often one-way
things.
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Talking about the fragrance of flowers, no one has studied
which flowers have the most aromatic smell, nor have they
measured the specific beauty of each flower. Only the incense
of those who hold the precepts according to Buddha naturally
affirms the value of his fragrance. And only in every
practitioner has a personal sense of beauty, then love each
specific flower. But in that particular, there is still a
common feeling whenever you see the flower garden blooming
simultaneously.
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In folk, many people like a lotus is it because the lotus is
beautiful or because of its usefulness:
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- Lotus throne to get seeds,
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- Lotus heart used as a medicine,
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- Lotus stamen used to marinate tea,
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- Lotus root is a culinary treat for welding and heat,
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- Lotus leaf is used to cover the tray .....
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Or because lotus has existed in her own beauty in the minds of
Vietnamese people from the biggest plain of Vietnam:
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- The most beautiful Thap Muoi City is the lotus.
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So no one needs to be praised, but lotus keeps having natural
aromatic musk. While interested people are still discussing
vigorously and nature lovers wait for new joy, in the poll of
which flowers will be chosen as a symbol of the national
flower, and also a cultural messenger of the country, the
lotus is a flower chosen as a symbol for the country of
Vietnam.
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Although the lotus is beautiful, if compared to the flower of
the Precepts, the flower of the Preceptor is much more
beautiful and pure:
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- As beautiful flowers only display colors without aroma, as
well as those who know how to say good things without doing
good, it is not beneficial.
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While:
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- As beautiful and fresh flowers have an aroma, as well as
those who say good, and do good, it will bring good results.
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Between two types of people, the type of people who can do
good deeds and do good things, so from the heaps of flowers we
can form many garlands of flowers as well as from the human
bodies that can create many good deeds, the beauty naturally
emanating from us is the most durable and precious. If you
want to do this, it won't be too difficult when we just need
to pay attention to a few minor things below:
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1- Specific Visualization
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You need to really imagine what you want to change, like:
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- A dignified body, your body must do many good things
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- A gentle, friendly way of speaking, is that you are
cultivating good things about your mouth
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- Keep your skin clean, smooth and noble, then your thoughts
must reflect on good things.
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And believe that these things can be fully realized. Of
course, the goals we set are to be achieved, so not too far
from reality. Accept yourself and be proud of a unique beauty
that is ours.
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2- Stand In Front Of A Mirror.
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See how everyone's behavior is your own Mirror, and the
fastest way to adjust your attitude is to look at the truth.
People who are not confident often avoid mirrors like avoiding
epidemics. However, the mirror or the behavior of others is
our ally. It will give you the most objective view of
yourself.
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3- Learn How to Use
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For example, the same type of cosmetic, but some people know
how to use them to make them more beautiful, but some people
do not know how to use them to make themselves worse. So, it's
important not to be expensive or cheap cosmetics, but how you
use them. Also, in all circumstances, we do not complain or
give up, depending on which behavior, turn bad circumstances
into good.
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Learn how to use every situation in the most effective way.
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4- Discovering Self-Confidence
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People with confidence always consider all circumstances to be
a test and consider it a source of energy to increase morale.
If at times the woman cares about how to attract other people,
by always creating surprises by the charm and excitement in
the way they talk, then confidence is positive. allowing us to
think and act appropriately to transform every situation.
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5- Pride in Self.
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Proud but not arrogant, so don't be shy to show your stunning
beauty. Don't hesitate to let people know that we know how to
practice ourselves properly. True beauty is important. Instead
of running around searching for expensive products to take
care of beauty, let's explore within ourselves through
practice. Take advantage of every means we have. We will learn
to love ourselves and will always be bright and happy even
without makeup.
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6- Refresh Every Day
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Do something for yourself every day. Doing so means that you
respect yourself. Read a loving Bible, calmly think back to
the daily deeds. Do it if you really enjoy it. Whatever you
choose, remember to record what you did and how you felt at
the time.
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7- Always Keep Smile On Your Lips
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When your mood is relaxed, happy, the whole world will see
your beautiful, radiant beauty. If you find yourself ugly,
people also see you like that.
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So consider yourself the most positive if possible. Find ways
for you not to be obsessed with beautiful words.
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8- Find People Who Understand You
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Although it is unintentional or intentional, the words spoken
by others affect the way you see yourself. Find motivating
people and give you good emotions when you're Disappointed or
bored. Their compliments and encouragement will definitely
improve your spirit.
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9- Listen To Your Self
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Listen to yourself for helpful advice. It is not only the
teacher who directs the direction, but also helps you stay
calm, happy, and even help you figure out why you have such
actions …
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The problem is that it takes time to capture that important
information. Plan to give yourself a moment of relaxation,
quietness like taking a dip in the tub or taking a walk. Think
of this intuitive perception as part of our hearts.
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10- Rest
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At least twice a day, sit for 5 minutes to look at your face,
clothes, and yourself. Take deep breaths to refresh and
revitalize, maintain a fresh look.
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In short, when you know how to create three pure karmas, take
advantage of all circumstances, know how to use the energy of
many people, you know how to reproduce and beautify yourself.
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