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DHARMA IN EVERYDAY LIFE
- RETRIBUTION OF LIES
By Nhat Quan
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Lying is not
telling the truth, if something happens, you say it is not. If
it doesn't happen, you say yes. The question is why do you have
to lie?
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According to
scientific researchers, people lie because they fear the
consequences of telling the truth. When a person makes a
mistake, they will try to hide the truth so as not to be seen by
others as stupid, or incompetent, or simply to keep others from
taking out their anger on them. In addition, some people lie
because they fear punishment, and being denied personal benefits
in life. Even people who lie not maliciously but only jokingly
also cause bad karma, because it makes them get used to bad
habits, and makes people around them not believe their words
anymore, even though sometimes they tell the truth.
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A liar, even
just for fun, is enough to create evil karma. They make many
people distrustful, and easily classified as deceitful,
unethical people. There are also people who because of their
weakness and lack of courage when they were forced by someone,
had to lie. They do not speak the truth when being forced by bad
people to lie or blame someone. Doing so caused the people they
claimed to be in calamity.
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Besides, there
are people who are greedy for fame and status, so they brag.
They lie to make others think they are talented, intelligent,
and superior... but that's fake. This is self-created evil
karma, just for the sake of fame and profit. Therefore,
depending on the circumstances, people use all sorts of excuses
to cover up their sins. But no matter what, the harm is very
serious in terms of:
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1- In terms of
health
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As you know,
your nervous system is closely related to the immune system in
the body. All your activities, thoughts, consciousness,
feelings, and emotions have a direct effect on your health.
Simply put, your body will act on what you think.
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When you lie,
you will feel anxious, guilty, or generally stressed about a
certain issue. During this time, your body will produce many
different hormones such as cortisol and norepinephrine. Cortisol
will reduce the production of endorphins (happy hormones) in the
body, increase blood sugar and weaken the immune system.
Norepinephrine will stimulate the heart rate to beat faster and
lead to high blood pressure.
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In addition,
scientific researchers also say that people who often lie are
often anxious, and physically and mentally weak which easily
leads to ulcers, headaches, insomnia, or paranoia.
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2- In terms of
harm to the union & society,
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Lying is a bad
habit and a disease of people today. Lying is also dishonesty,
that action will gradually make people not be true to
themselves, lose their wisdom, and will live in the falsehood of
their own conscience.
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Lying habitually
will become a very difficult habit to eradicate. Lying that
people know is like you are isolated, no one wants to be close
to you. That is to say, lying will destroy your credibility.
There are two effects:
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Firstly, lying
negatively affects social stability. You can only live together
in an atmosphere of mutual trust. Trust that:
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- In
communication, everyone tells the truth. If everyone is lying,
then it is a sign of social dissolution and disintegration.
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Second, on a
personal level, lying has the disastrous effect of a chain
reaction. That is, one lie leads to another, and then another,
more serious lie. Until you yourself are surrounded by a veil of
lies that you create.
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3- Buddhist
point of view
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In Buddhism,
lying is also called false speech. This is one of the precepts
of Buddhists. As a monk, lying is no longer simple but is
divided into two types: petty lies, and serious lies:
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- In Buddhism,
the most serious lie is claiming to be a saint. That is, in your
mind, you are very self-aware that you are not a saint, but
because you want to receive the respect of others, you
intentionally lie. Whoever commits this great error of speech,
may suffer from crazy retribution in life, be scorned by
everyone, and go to hell when they die.
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- Cheating lies,
a kind of trivial lie just to deceive, gain profit or give false
testimony. It means knowing you lie, but you have to lie to get
more profit. Then this sin will be relegated to the animal
realm, hell upon death. It can be said that giving false
witnesses or lying is the defect that people are most likely to
commit. So in order not to lie, you should not do anything
wrong, you must keep your whole life true and pure.
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Buddha said:
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- When a person
lives a virtuous life, upholding the precepts, if higher than
that, then this person entering a congregation has nothing to
fear because his life has not made any mistakes.
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The value is
that you did nothing wrong and you have nothing to lie about. A
person who can say that he is not lying, about his life has
indeed reached a position close to that of a Saint, without
considering how many virtues, or precepts because If you don't
lie, life must be extremely true.
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Usually, lying
is hard work because you have to cover it up, hide it, and be
sneaky. Everyone is a liar even though everyone is very pious,
even the priest. You are always motivated to prove you are a
good person in front of others. This is a lie in each of you.
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You are not a
saint yet, inside you secretly have many faults. But when
appearing in front of people, you have to dress decently, smile
and talk happily, walk solemnly, you always want to show that
you are a good person. The reason why you become fake, acting
with people, is mainly for fame and profit.
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If you have
lived untruth with others and with yourself, you will never find
the truth, then you will never realize the truth. The
consequences of lying like that are further and further away
from the goal of liberation and enlightenment, you fall more and
more into the cycle of sin, which is difficult to remove.
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The Buddhist
view of lying in life, you say untruthful or malicious words,
making many people feel sad is causing evil karma. Lying is also
stealing, so you have to bear bad karma. The evil retribution of
lying is an opportunity for non-humans to disturb and good
spirits to stay away.
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The two
non-human words here are only for the wrongful family, karma,
and demons. And Thien Than is only for the guardians of the
dragon heaven. In the Sutra, the Buddha tells you that those who
have received the Three Refuges will have 36 guardian deities
protecting the Dharma day and night. Because you have 36
guardian deities to protect, these inhuman beings dare not come
near you. And you who receive one of the five precepts will be
protected by the five guardian deities day and night. If you
fulfill all five precepts, there will be 25 guardian deities
following to protect you so that you will never have an
accident.
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If you are
really a Buddhist, in this life words, creations, and thoughts
are all good, then even if you have a lot of injustices and
bondholders who are clinging to your day and night, these unjust
people will also stay away, do not dare to come near to disturb
you. And if you study Buddhism artificially, using the name of
studying Buddhism to break the Precepts and break the Law, the
Dharma Protector will go away, but the Precept Guardian will
also go. These injustices and bondholders will disturb your day
and night, to avenge you they will definitely not let you be
comfortable. Causing your body and mind to suffer, your body
being sick, and your mind suffering a lot of anxiety, worry, and
insecurity.
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When you are in
the lecture hall, in the nembutsu hall, you can see that there
are very few people who are full of elation, most of them are
depressed, mentally tired, body and mind are not comfortable, or
dare not attend retreats. All of these things are caused by
wrongful family, karma, and demons. These events all happen in
everyday life, it seems that no one can escape. You can't find
the cause, so you just think it's because the body is not good,
then go to the doctor to check, no matter what, you can't find
the cause.
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Even a
psychiatrist can't find a problem. If you do not study Buddhism,
you will not be able to understand this problem. Only when you
study Buddhism can you understand, it's all caused by the
resentment family, the bondholder, if you don't have an unjust
family or a bondholder, you won't have these phenomena!
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When you have
understood the truth, if you look carefully at your daily life,
you will easily find the answer. Those who have a lot of
resentment, bondholders, live very tired, very miserable. Those
who are unjust, bondholders are less, they will be very gentle,
always in high spirits, and very active. This cannot be
misinterpreted.
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So if you want
to keep your health, study and practice smoothly, and live a
peaceful life, you must study diligently and especially not lie.
Bring all the merits of your own practice and dedicate it to all
these wrongful families, and bondholders, for them to enjoy.
Thanks to that, they are happy, and they do not cause trouble
anymore.
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Besides, you
must use a pure mind to study Buddhism, use a pure mind to
cultivate, use a pure mind to live, and handle everyday things
with people, then they will not only cause trouble for you but
will also leave you immediately.
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Therefore, the
retribution of verbal karma is extremely scary, which you cannot
ignore, you must always remind yourself. Never commit a verbal
offense. Otherwise, your own future days will be miserable. And
according to the Buddhist scriptures, if you lie and you have
attained Sainthood, while you have not, you will commit the
crime of false speech and will fall into the three evil paths of
hell, hungry ghosts, and animals.
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Lying not only
causes consequences for yourself, but lies affect others.
Remember, lying is a very very bad character, that action will
gradually make you not be true to yourself, lose your wisdom,
and will live in the falsehood of your own conscience. Buddha
taught:
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- A liar is like
water that has washed his feet unfit for drinking.
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Therefore, a
liar will never practice and attain the Way. Lying and deceiving
people, in the end, have to bear bad luck. Retribution is always
strict. Causation and retribution at all times are present, if
you live improperly and dishonestly, you will surely bring
yourself trouble according to the law of cause and effect. The
following cause-and-effect stories will show you that a person
with an evil mind, lying to deceive others' compassion, will
have bad luck in the body. The story is:
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An old woman one
day met a lost child on the street, took pity on the old woman
and brought her home to eat and drink, then let her work as a
maid and paid a salary of one hundred thousand VND a month
100,000. Just like that, the child has grown up and is aware
that having money will live a much happier life, not having to
work for anyone. Although the old lady treated her very well,
she was greedy and wanted to deceive the benefactor's kindness
to earn a lot of money and then set up her own business, not
having to work for other people anymore. Thinking like that, the
maid pretended to be ill and told the old woman that her ankle
was hurt, her feet hurt, so it was difficult to walk, and she
couldn't do housework anymore.
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The old woman
felt very sorry for her, so she gave her eight hundred thousand
(800,000) and told the maid to go to a doctor. However, the maid
received the money and pretended to go to the hospital, asked
the doctor for a certificate of illness, and then went back to
tell the old woman that:
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- I have to quit
my job because I don't want to bother you anymore
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The old woman
wanted to keep the maid, so she said:
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- I will take
care of you, without having to do housework anymore.
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However, the
maid insisted on leaving and asked the old woman for a little
more money to support herself.
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The old lady in
her heart also guessed the greed of the maid, but being generous
and honest, she gave an extra two hundred and fifty thousand
(250,000) dong.
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The maid girl
got 1,150,000.00 VND and was happy to open her own business.
Then, by chance, she met her lover, and the two planned to get
married. But unfortunately, on the way to buy wedding clothes,
there was an accident. Her boyfriend was fine, and the maid was
run over by a car, injuring her ankle and joint. When she went
to see the doctor, the doctor said that she is now disabled and
has to use crutches to walk. The total amount of treatment cost
is 1,150,000.00 VND!
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The little maid
at that time regretted what she had done, seeing what she was
suffering, was the fact that she once deceived the old lady who
was her benefactor who had mercy on her. But it's too late for
her to regret it.
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The story above
shows you that cause and effect are very strict for all bad
actions of people. So if you want to deceive others and say
unfortunate things about yourself, you should also be careful.
Because there will be times when that bad luck will enter your
body according to the law of cause and effect. Many people think
that lying is harmless, but it actually has terrible
consequences. In future lifetimes, making you fall into hell as
the Buddhists say, and now can have incalculable consequences.
And this is the consequence of the lie. The story is:
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When the mother
was working in the kitchen, she asked the boy to buy vegetables.
The boy went out for a while, then called home:
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- Mom, I can't
buy vegetables, I was hit by a motorbike at the intersection
near my house, you come here with me. His voice was trying to
sound shaky.
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After hanging up
the phone, he giggled because he thought he had tricked his
mother. As for the boy's mother, when she heard him say that,
she thought it was true and left all her unfinished work to run
to the intersection with her child. While worrying about her
baby, the mother did not pay attention to her surroundings and
was hit by a truck. The mother lay unconscious on the spot, and
also at the intersection, right in front of the boy's eyes.
Everyone around panicked, and he stood dumbfounded at the sight.
His face turned pale and then as fast as a baby monkey, he ran
and tried to make his way through the crowd to his mother.. his
mother lay there... motionless.. blood was flowing profusely
around her head. Just then the ambulance also arrived, and his
mother was taken to the hospital but it was no longer possible,
the mother of the baby died. That woman left the boy with
terrible torment, the regret may never end, leaving him alone
with his father to take care of him.
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And since then,
he detests lies, he doesn't lie to anyone, and when anyone lies
to him, he gets angry and irritable. As the days passed, it also
matured, sometimes unconsciously it walked to the crossroads
where its mother's accident happened, and then it returned
quietly, with a heavy heart. Suddenly, one day when he was
crossing the street, he was hit by a car, just like his mother
in the past...
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Most of you
lie to justify your wrong actions to avoid criticism and
reprimand. Although your parents, teachers, and ancestors have
always taught you not to lie, you cannot control your lying. You
may think lying is harmless, but it actually has terrible
consequences.
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Buddhism is very
concerned with words, that's why the precept not to lie is
included in the teachings. Even for lay people, of the five
precepts, the Buddha prescribed lying as the fourth precept.
Thereby showing how important words are in life. That is why the
Buddha advised Buddhists to always practice oral karma as one of
the three karmas. No matter how you lie, it all causes karma,
even if it's a joke,
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In short, lying
is also a psychological state, but still creates karma, it is
also inevitable that karma, depending on the level of good and
evil, the consequences are present. A liar, as you well know, is
one people will have less trust in you in all areas of life,
this is also known by folk, so there is a saying:
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- Once not true,
ten thousand times not believe.
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But in life,
because of selfishness, and wanting to benefit yourself, you
find all kinds of cunning schemes, and scams, so you do whatever
you want. You don't think about the consequences of your
actions, so you do stupid things. When something goes wrong,
it's too late.
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Once again, I
would like to repeat, the retribution for lying is to keep the
Dharma Protector and the Precept World Protector away,
wrongfully family and bondholders will haunt. And there will be
great harm to yourself in the present, and in the future will
fall into hell, hungry ghosts or animals. Because when you hide
the truth for some purpose, the amygdala region of the brain
will be affected. This amygdala structure plays a role in
creating fear, or shame, so as soon as lies are uttered, the
brain will generate guilt to limit actions that are not proud
there. But most people ignored this warning, gradually the
inhibitory function faded away, and the ugly habit of lying was
formed.
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So to say, lies
that seem harmless, actually do not affect the listener but do a
lot of harm to the speaker. Therefore, the act of lying is like
torturing the brain, the more tired you are, the more tired you
will be. Moreover, there are lies that cannot be ended
immediately. Then the brain needs to think to make up a story
that is not true, and then have to remember it again to avoid
confusion next time. The next time you are asked, you have to
keep recalling and making up this fake story. Just like that,
lying makes the brain weaker and weaker. You will feel anxiety,
stress, and pressure, which affects your entire health. Because
the retribution is so serious, as a Buddhist you must practice
not lying.
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