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DHARMA IN EVERYDAY LIFE
- COMFORT WHEN GIVEN
By Nhat Quan
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Given is a
common word in society, in Buddhism, it is called
Almsgiving. Almsgiving is understood in the ordinary sense
of the world as helping, sharing, that is sowing good seeds.
Thus, when you do good deeds such as almsgiving money, and
possessions, and sharing the worries and sufferings of
others, you are cultivating blessings. The word almsgiving
is giving or sharing is one of the Six Paramitas. In
Buddhism, the concept of the Six Paramitas consists of six
actions:
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Almsgiving,
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- Keeping
the precepts,
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- Patience
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- Diligence,
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- Meditation
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- Wisdom.
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Almsgiving
is one of the twelve vows of the Medicine Buddha. Almsgiving
is the eleventh vow. The content of this prayer he said:
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- Those who
are hungry, I give food to eat, those who are thirsty, give
water to drink, and those who are cold, I give clothes to
wear. Only then did I preach the Buddhadharma to them.
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Almsgiving
is also a word to refer to a rich, high-status person giving
gifts to the lower, poor, and needy. Almsgiving according to
Buddhism is also called offering. The word offering is used
for everyone, whether that person has a high status, rich to
those of low status, or poor can be used to show respect
when making an offering dedicated to higher people,
especially in terms of morality and spirituality. Therefore,
Buddhists all use the word offering to monks and nuns,
bodhisattvas, and buddhas. Ordinary people in the community
and in society all use the word giving or giving or sharing.
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The act of
almsgiving holds the top spot. In the minds of Buddhists,
almsgiving is perceived as a necessary practice on the path
to practice with all noble vows. It is letting go, letting
go of attachment to the body, letting go of everything
including external body things and even letting go of
conceptual attachments.
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- Let go of
attachments to the body, such as clothes that only need to
be warm enough to cover the body and rain without having to
be expensive.
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- Let go of
personal things on the outside, which people in the world
say: Take your possessions to cover your body, but don't use
your body to cover your possessions.
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- Let go of
ideas, that is, you should not argue, do not accept
unnecessary things ...
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Therefore,
almsgiving has the function of a key that opens the door to
selfishness, gradually exhausting narrow selfishness. Thus,
almsgiving is the act of starting a life of generosity,
cultivating altruism, and the first step towards the
enlightened Dharma.
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However, the
practice of giving will take you a long time to fully
develop its profound meaning in the direction of
non-demanding and non-attachment. You no longer see them as
worthy jobs so there's no reason to be complacent. You don't
think about what you've done, you don't think about giving
back, and you don't wait for praise.
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The more you
practice almsgiving, the more your compassion and aspiration
will grow, your narrow-mindedness, your pride will have to
die out, and your meritorious deeds will gradually
crystallize good results. The Buddha's eternal shining
example shows the fusion of immeasurable, countless
altruistic spirits that have created a sublime personality,
causing all mankind to bow in awe over time and endless
space.
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So when you
talk about almsgiving you think of Buddhism, which is
essentially an education, not a religion at all. So outside
of the religious sense, you don't worship the Buddha as a
god, but you respect him as a teacher, that's why you often
call it:
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- The
Buddha, or Nammo the original teacher of Shakyamuni Buddha
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Perhaps you
should not understand that you are followers of the Buddhist
religion but should understand that you are disciples of the
Buddha.
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His
teachings help you to be free from suffering, to attain true
happiness for yourself and for others, and in general for
all sentient beings. You perform almsgiving to eliminate
greed, hatred, delusion, and pride. Usually, almsgiving is
re-reduced by the Buddha into three types: almsgiving of
wealth, giving of dharma, and giving of fearlessness.
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Almsgiving of wealth and materialism has two aspects inside
and outside.
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- The inner
aspect is all effort, mind, and body for the benefit of
others.
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- External
means to donate money, material...
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Almsgiving Dharma is to contribute information and knowledge
that benefit people, and to do your best to teach those who
need to learn from you. As a result of giving the Dharma,
you will be wiser and smarter.
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3- Fearless
giving is to help and relieve the anxiety of others, to
share problems, to comfort and protect so that others can be
more secure and safe. Blessings are being healthy, and body
and mind are free.
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The endless
flow of a human's life is not the end of death, but the
journey of changing the body to continue to return to
another form in the human realm or in a certain realm such
as:
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- Heaven
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- God Realm
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- Human
Realm
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- Beast
Realm
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- Hell Realm
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- Devil's
Realm
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In this
continuing journey, after a person dies, without taking
anything, only karma follows as energy to start another
life, following a new cycle in the direction of the law.
cause and effect operate, and then reappear in this world or
some other world.
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Those of you
who are re-appeared to this world, there are rich people,
glorious careers, success, and fame, not by chance. It is
the result of your practice of virtue in many previous
lives. So in this life, nothing happens by accident or by
chance. According to the Buddha, if you want to be rich,
noble, and full in the future, in the present, you must know
almsgiving, make offerings, help, and share according to
your ability. A true Buddhist must always believe deeply in
cause and effect and believe that you will be blessed with
good deeds. So if you want to be rich, have a lot of wealth,
but you don't know how to do good at the moment, I'm afraid
you can't have it.
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Buddhism is
present in life for the benefit of sentient beings and wants
to help people transform their lives of poverty by
encouraging them to generate generosity and make offerings.
Buddha taught you to know how to release greed and
selfishness, not only knowing how to live for yourself but
knowing how to help and share with others. Should not live
in insensitivity who suffers regardless. Buddhism advocates
living in harmony with humanity with the concept that
everyone is a relative and a loved one, so each person has
the responsibility and duty to love, protect and help each
other in the spirit of selflessness and altruism. Because
the Buddha clearly saw that the lives of all species must
depend on each other, no species can separate from social
life and exist in this vast universe. He also shows you
clearly all the differences and disagreements between people
and animals:
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- There are
people who are rich, happy, possessive, and materially
adequate;
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- There are
poor, miserable, hungry, needy, wandering people;
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- There are
the rich, the coward, the ugly, the beautiful, the stupid,
the wise,
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- Some
people die prematurely, some live long, some are happy, some
are unhappy, some suffer...
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Buddha also
taught:
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- People who
have enough to eat and wear are those who have merit and
virtue, so they don't worry about it, so it's easy to
cultivate.
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So what is a
person with merit?
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A person
with merit and virtue is someone who has a stable life,
adequate material means, a house, money, fame, good food,
and warm clothing. Living in a family that is above and
below peace, knows how to be respectful and polite to the
people above, to love and care for the people below. Know
filial piety to grandparents and parents, and know how to
teach children what is good or right. Stay away from evil
friends, stay close to good friends in the love of humanity
for the sake of humanity in life with a heart of
understanding.
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Through this teaching, from which you deduce the situation
of a person or an unstable family, lacking food and
clothing... It is the phenomenon of a lack of merit and
virtue. Lack of merit and virtue that right now you do not
know how to do meritorious deeds, or know but deliberately
forget. Being indifferent to doing good and wanting to be
blessed in the future is impossible. Just like before, you
have never done good deeds, so now you have to suffer a life
of poverty. You should remember that if you do good, you
will be blessed, and if you enjoy your blessing, you will
end up being blessed. Understanding this, you need to try to
plant blessings and virtues to make your life more perfect.
A day you live in the world is a day you must live to be
useful to yourself and others without harming anyone. On the
contrary, people living in poverty, not having enough food
to eat, and not having enough clothes to wear, in the family
often cause quarrels, discord, and conflicts with each other
because of a lack of merit and virtue.
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Please
repeat again. Blessings are actions, words, and thoughts
that bring joy and happiness to everyone in the present and
in the future. A person who does good is someone who knows
how to do good and good things and always helps people when
they are in trouble, so everyone likes to be close, loved,
and respected. It is through that closeness, you easily
sympathize, forgive each other, and are ready to commit to
serving, love, and support each other in the spirit of
selflessness.
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Blessings
help you to transform bad karma that harms people and things
for many lifetimes. Blessing has the ability to help you to
be wise to reduce wrongdoing in life. There are things you
think you can't save, but fortunately, you will overcome
them all.
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Because of
that blessing, many of you easily let go and fall into
sensual pleasures. At that time, even if there are good and
knowledgeable people to advise, it is difficult for you to
listen because you are in a drunken stupor, infatuated with
lust.
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The
cultivation of merit is very important. If you are blessed,
you will be rich, have a lot of wealth, and power, and enjoy
material things fully. However, enjoying the blessings
without knowing how to save them, there will be a day when
you will have to suffer in the cycle of birth and death.
Therefore, having a blessing without merit or in other
words, a lack of cultivation is very easy to lead to
afflictions, and attachments, seeing you as a giver, the
recipient must be grateful to you and then have high
tributes and conceit. Many times when you see the recipient
being ungrateful, not grateful, you will have a mind looking
down on the recipient. So you will not only lose your
blessing but also have to bear bad results.
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Because of
almsgiving for many generations, you will reap many
blessings, so your mind believes in the Three Jewels, deeply
believes in cause and effect, and tries to maintain and
develop the mind to learn the Dharma, cultivate and let go,
so step by step, you can transform your afflictions greed,
hatred, si. The Buddhas of the ten directions who have
achieved the path of enlightenment and liberation are also
based on the practice of generosity.
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As you
know, almsgiving is still an important and essential
condition for Buddhists, so more and more great compassion
is developed. That's why the giver is more blessed than the
receiver because the recipient gets only a little material,
but the giver gets a lot of spiritual joy because it helps
others to reduce their suffering.
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However, if
you help someone you don't know how to cultivate and
nurture, then you will be attached to your work, so you will
see that you are the helper, the other person is the object
of help and the recipient of alms. If almsgiving, or making
offerings but the mind does not wish for anything, such as:
Offering to the temple so that the temple has more means of
living beneficial for everyone. Helping people is to let
people overcome hardships without hesitation, without
thinking, without further calculation, then you will
transform the afflictions of greed, hatred, and delusion.
Your desire for fame and profit will decrease, and your
self-grasping mind will also decrease. If you don't do bad
things but do all kinds of good deeds but don't cling to
them, your mind will be purified. That is, you know how to
cultivate your mind and nurture your nature, and you know
how to do good deeds and at the same time, you know how to
cultivate your mind. When you do good deeds, if you cling to
them, your mind will be angry, insecure, and uncomfortable
when others criticize and criticize you.
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Blessing is
the result of doing good deeds such as helping people in
need, sharing material and spiritual things to help people
less miserable, and creating good causes. If you do a lot of
meritorious deeds, you will enjoy rich results, rich money
in the world, or be born in heaven. According to the
Buddhist scriptures:
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people have the ultimate blessing to be born in the heavens
or the human realm to enjoy good results when their
blessings are exhausted, they are still governed by the law
of impermanence and still have to drift in the cycle of
birth and death. Only people with full merit are not
affected by suffering, so they are at ease in all
circumstances.
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So
if you have already generated the mind of giving, you should
try a little more, that's practice. Causation and karma will
not give up on anyone when the conditions are met, doing
good will enjoy blessings, and doing evil will suffer the
results of suffering is a very fair law with no difference.
Therefore, Buddhists must know how to choose wisely, don't
let the time come to reap bad results and then lament their
fate, blame it here and there, and then sharpen the
suffering.
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When the
sages encounter bad results, because they have clear wisdom,
they can clearly see the cause and effect of karma, so they
are not sad or suffering. Wise people must know how to
choose a good path leading to peace and happiness, know how
to do merit to accumulate, if they do not know how to
accumulate more blessings, when they run out of blessings,
they will encounter disaster.
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Giving,
helping, and sharing help you to establish love. On that
basis, you create a relationship of correlation and
interdependence in society and the community in order to
develop well in all aspects, sustainably and in the long
term. In your daily life, you have to do how to create merit
in order to perfect yourself and contribute to the benefit
of mankind. Because almsgiving is the basic foundation for
connecting love, sharing life to alleviate the pain and
misfortune of others, is the first good thing that the
Buddha always mentioned. Human nature is that you always
want, want more, never get enough, and never be satisfied
with what you have. So, if you want to live a peaceful and
happy life, you should be content with what you have and try
to maintain, preserve and develop. Expecting a lot, dreaming
a lot but not getting what you want will only add more
sorrow and suffering.
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True
Buddhists should know that almsgiving is the first step to
sharing the suffering and pain of the unfortunate. It is a
great consolation in life, a bridge connecting love with
humanity in life. Therefore, you should develop a mind to
give alms, develop a Buddhist common house, actively
contribute, participate in social activities, and help
people have conditions to learn and cultivate. practice to
transform suffering and pain into happiness and bring
benefit to all sentient beings. If you do all that, you will
feel:
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greatest consolation in life is knowing how to give, and
there you also find the greatest consolation in life is when
you see someone receiving alms, which you clearly see when
natural disasters flood occurs. From there you can expand:
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- The
happiest when being loved
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- The
happiest when being lucky
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- The most
consoling is the poor who are in need, in times of
difficulty get help to be able to overcome the tribulation.
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Have a
question:
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- Have you
given alms today?
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Yes, that's
fine. If not, try to develop the mind to practice meditation
and practice good deeds. On this occasion, I would like to
convey to you the story:
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February 15, 2019, the media in the northeastern United
States published a news story that will warm your heart
after reading it. The news story was about a policeman who
left a $100 bill for a hostess, even though he only ate
$8.75. He gave a rather large sum of money when he learned
that the hostess was pregnant with her first child and still
wanted to work at a restaurant. He had known the practice of
giving, although he was probably not a Buddhist, having
never heard of the Buddhist word almsgiving.
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The Cherry
Hill Courier-Post newspaper reported that the act of helping
the young woman by the police happened in Gloucester, a city
in New Jersey, at noon on Friday, February 15, 2019.
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People and
the whole world would not know about the generous heart of
the policeman if it were not for the voice of the hostess's
father, Mr. Brian Cadigan, owner of Lamp Post Diner
restaurant. His daughter is Courtney English, 23 years old.
The father said that from a young age, Ms. Courtney was
independent and strong-willed. However, she was still
touched when she read the words written from the heart of
the policeman.
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When her
father saw the receipt with an additional amount of $100,
her father was impressed by the generous act of the officer
who had left the restaurant by then. Mr. Cadigan recounted
this story on Facebook, and since then people have heard
about the policeman giving away money.
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Mr. Cadigan
wrote on Facebook that people often hear bad stories about
the police, about how they are rude to others, but besides
that, most officers are doing the right thing to protect
people and must solve complex problems of society every day.
Mr. Cadigan praised the officer and other officers for doing
acts of kindness that most of the public is never aware of.
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The father
said that the officer came in for lunch during busy hours on
Friday. Mr. Cadigan's daughter is seven months pregnant with
her first child but still wants to work because she needs to
save money for the baby while she can still work.
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When he
heard her talk about her situation, the policeman quietly
waited until he paid, using the card to give her the largest
amount of money she had ever had in her days as a waitress.
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On the bill
handed back to the waitress, the policeman added the short
words "Enjoy ur 1st. You will never forget it". Please
translate a bit long as:
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- Enjoy the
happiness of giving birth to your first child. You will
never forget that experience.
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Mr. Cadigan
added that the officer did not want others to know who he
was.
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Almsgiving
is often thought of as an act of material donation, giving
someone money, a material item, or even donating blood or an
organ.
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According to
the Buddhist spirit, more almsgiving will create more
blessings for you. That is not wrong, it is clear that the
action of the other policeman determined that giving is
thinking of others, knowing that he must act to help those
around him to reduce suffering and sorrow. The recipient
will be comforted, live more joyfully, and live in
happiness. When you know how to think like this, you will
not only reduce your ego, get rid of selfishness, but
gradually learn to do things that don't really need money
but still make others less miserable and happier.
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As I said
once, give a word of comfort when someone else is sad, give
words of encouragement to someone who is suffering, listen
to their concerns, or give a smile to anyone you meet in
your life day.
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As long as
you forget yourself, and think about others, you will find
many ways to make others happy. Almsgiving is a very easy
act to do, but also very important for those who think of
themselves as children of Buddha. The bridge of almsgiving
will help you establish love, on that basis create
friendship, social relationships and community also develop
well.
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The attitude
while you are almsgiving, that is, sharing, or donating your
possessions to others is the way to apply and practice the
doctrine of not-self, which means that nothing is entirely
yours. Because when you know you are not you anymore, then
everything is only a function, a tool for a moment, for a
period of decades in life.
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Therefore,
you must do noble deeds to share less suffering and pain in
life. From there, you can easily give with happiness, in
order to perfect all the necessary moral examples of
yourself. Therefore, if you do not understand the doctrine
of no-self, it is difficult to almsgiving and makes
offerings.
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In short,
human suffering and pain are caused by natural disasters, if
it doesn't happen in one place, it happens somewhere else.
As for the human-caused suffering caused by the lack of
understanding of cause and effect, no-self, impermanence,
and lack of Buddhist wisdom, the suffering remains the same.
However, when you understand the Buddhadharma, then material
hunger is not an obsession that plagues people anymore, you
can still live happily and peacefully.
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In society,
if an individual lacks almsgiving, it will be difficult to
succeed. Because, in addition to the consolation factor,
almsgiving is also a moral and spiritual element, helping
people to rebuild society from many different angles and
situations. In addition, through almsgiving, you can bring
Buddhism into society in languages other than Dharma. With
such spirit and content, you will successfully carry out
what the Buddha taught. This is the very heart of the
incarnation of Buddhism through which the spirit:
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greatest consolation in life is when you know how to give.
And the greatest consolation in life is when you receive
from others in a time of need.
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