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DHARMA IN EVERYDAY LIFE
TIME BUDGET
By Nhat Quan
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First of all, is
the concept of time. Time is something we can't define
specifically, can only be understood to be invisible or
unintentional, slowly drifting by day by cycle through the sky of
the rising and setting sun every day. Because it is invisible or
unknowingly, it goes on and on, so people often call it the
timeline to have a concept. Although it is invisible or
unintentional, it has the ability to change everything we cannot
control. Its characteristic is that it has gone through, and never
comes back, and that is also the uniqueness of creation, it is
impossible to see that it has duplication, the return of the
old-time, no stored as your own, it can't be saved ... With each
person perceiving time in different ways, then making
practicality, and its importance getting richer.
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Earth, nature
still operates over time, every second, every minute, every hour,
day and year and so on like endless time ..., while human life, or
the time budget of each person this world is limited to the
average age of a person from 60, 70 or 100 years of age, however,
it is still far less than the time of the universe and nature.
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Time is even more
precious than gold because this is one of the values that money
never buys, money can be lost but can be acquired by human power,
but time then no matter how you use it, it cannot be taken back.
So the old people often advised us:
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- Live every
moment in the present so you don't have to regret it later.
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Time is also a
medicine to treat the spirit, gradually eradicating pain, and
discord in the relationships between people and people. It is a
representation of the miraculous change, changing the human
character, including love, it erases everything, makes it all fall
into oblivion. Big and clear changes on people's faces, make us
more mature in every way.
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Time is really
important, a property, a treasure of man, and is always called a
miraculous gift of life. Time helps us grow and grow to do all the
necessary and important things in life. But the special thing that
makes up the position, the role of time is to work forever and not
to return, like an arrow that has been shot out. Every second, a
minute, an hour has many changes, drifting away to make the past
never recover. Therefore, if we are aware of the role of managing
our own time budget as soon as possible, then we will be aware of
many things to do, to keep, to embrace it with all our hearts.
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Besides those who
keep their time budgets, we see there are many people who don't
know how to keep them, so they just let time pass day after day,
month after month, destroying age young, healthy, and corrupting
their qualities. Many of them are lazy, addicted to the internet,
addicted to drugs, eat and play, lost, so they have taken away too
much of their time. Therefore, the result is no work capacity,
sometimes costly health, money, family atmosphere becomes
stressful. Once they have wasted their time, they will gradually
fall into disconnection and boredom, becoming a useless person in
society. And there is no exception for those who only know how to
bury their head in learning or working, ignorant of everything
around them, not knowing their time balance with society and
themselves. Those people are respectable but also pitiful.
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Today, in a
civilized and developed society, the establishment of a regular
timetable is mentioned by many people, as it will be able to help
people balance in life. It is possible to eliminate the overload
between learning, playing, chatting, sleeping, following
passionate things to do good things for the society ... Understand
that what to do first is done first, which one needs to do later
then do later.
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We are born, grow
up, grow old and die if we don't contemplate our actions soon,
don't know how to get along with people and behave well in
society, just wait for something like an opportunity but never
act, it will slowly progress, lose faith, lose energy before the
power of time. So now show your appreciation for our time, cherish
the gift of creating nature for us to do meaningful things, even
though we know it can't be changed in a short time, but try Power,
persistence, know how to master your own time, sooner or later you
will be better than what is present.
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Especially a
person with a mind of progress and a heart to do good, should soon
be aware of the use of his own time budget, so as not to become
indifferent, wasting time in vain, to know how to do what is right
and useful for everyone and society with the time we have. Let's
take every moment to never regret having wasted our time. So what
will we do to master our time budget, no matter who is in any
position, it will be the same 24 hours a day and everyone will
have only 168 hours a week and 8,736 hours a year are not surplus
and not missing.
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While it is not
possible to have 25 hours a day, there are many ways to make 24
hours more effective and useful. Most people know how to cherish
time, so they use the time budget to do meaningful things such as
practicing according to the Buddha's teachings, studying and
working to create material values and spiritual values to help
yourself and society. Those who can preserve, receive and respect
the time fund, they do many meaningful things in life like that.
The expression of a successful person is that they know how to
master the time, they always tell themselves to make use of every
moment to study and study to make an honest person and create many
good results and enjoy the feeling pleased, happy to race over
time. So plan your work or practice today for tomorrow right now.
If you wait until one day, or once your old age is weak, plan to
work, then it's too late.
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Make a list for
what to do today from the previous night. The most important thing
should be prioritized at the top of the list, and then the second
least important thing and so on to the least important things ...
Arrange your work by importance level descending down to less
important. With this arrangement, you will easily complete the
job. Because of the way it is so simple, there are very few people
who do it, so many people often start on jobs that are easy but
not necessarily the most important, so the success is often not as
expected.
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The time of a day,
though small in the time budget of a human life, but contributes
little to many. Also, a short time of one or two hours will become
long after several months, several years. That is why in the
Amitabha Sutra, the Buddha only recommended disciples if there was
a busy business, no time to practice, then just reciting the name
Amitabha Buddha from one time to ten thoughts per day, due to many
days of reciting Buddha's accumulated many ... This is to say that
if we do not cherish the moments in a day, let a day go by without
helping for yourself, it doesn't help anything for society. Once
we do not create value for ourselves, then we will permanently
lose the sense of the miracle of the change by each person's time
budget, So:
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a- If we are
students, we must know how to take advantage of the time to
improve our knowledge. Compared to training the mind, time
management is also described as a skill or ability to plan and
control the amount of time you spend to complete the curriculum.
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b- If you are a
worker, you also use your time budget to try to create a lot of
wealth for yourself, and make important things for society.
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c- If you are a
trader, the time management is mentioned, it is the arrangement
and distribution of time between the activities required by it,
depending on a specific priority. In this sense, time management
can also be referred to as market development planning. This means
that the right amount of time is right for the products that the
company needs to market. It should be noted that time itself will
be unmanageable, but what you manage is how you use the time you
have with your knowledge to succeed.
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d- If Buddhists
are similar to business people, you need to know how to use your
time budget to do the right thing ... Everyone has the same amount
of time during the day. Many Buddhists because they do not know
how to manage their time budget, most people feel that there is
too much work to do for relatives and family members, so there is
not enough time to cultivate yourself. So even though I want to
study, because I don't have time, I can't go to the temple often,
many people say so.
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As I once said,
everyone's budget is the same, but if you know how to spend your
time wisely, you can do what you want and do what you need to do.
But if you wait for a convenient time or have more time, it never
happens, and so you will lose when you are in this world. As a
reminder, if you schedule the right time, you can create a budget
of the time you need. Instead of waiting for time, you now plan to
use your time wisely, so you will have plenty of time to serve
your family that you just have to cultivate yourself.
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Understanding the
importance of time budgets will help you make conscious choices,
so you can spend a lot of time doing important and valuable
things. So if you don't know yet, learn how to take the time to do
important things in life. Even just spending a little time during
the day, or just spend time or twice a week, such as every
Saturday on Duoc Su Temple listening to the dharma, chanting.
Listening to dharma and chanting is good, but if you create more
time funds after having lunch, then stay in Duoc Su Temple to
meditate and recite Buddha's name twice a month, the second and
fourth weeks of each month. The better. Two times a month, but a
little practice but will accumulate for a long time will bring you
closer to your goals. And you will be surprised by the progress
you yourself have made.
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By using your
skills and how to manage the time budget you will work more
effectively, and you can accomplish more work while you only need
to spend less time and moderate effort. Managing your time budget
can help you be more creative and efficient, allowing you to do
the right things at the right time. This, of course, will help you
satisfy and balance your life.
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As a reminder,
time is irreplaceable and does not wait for anyone, time is
something that cannot be held, but if you can manage time
effectively we can accomplish tasks service, and achieving goals
that are deemed important in our work and in our lives. So you
need a serious and positive attitude. Must change now, changing
from the smallest things. But most importantly, you must determine
what is the most important goal for your life. And need an
overview to be able to offer a direction of action, to be able to
handle things harmoniously. So you need to plan, target or orient
for good work. To be able to do it does not lack what we want to
do with the time budget we have, by the way, we list what we need
to do, you can easily classify what needs to be done emergency
management, and what can be postponed later processing. This way
of listing helps you clearly identify tasks so that we can run our
jobs more efficiently for high priority tasks. For that, you can
apply only five steps:
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- Write down all
the things to do
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- Identify your
goals
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- Determine the
priority of each job
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- Calculate the
time required
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- Setting up a
work schedule.
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Remember that time
is our most scarce resource. So, we have to control and use it
with care. We all have the same amount of time. But you will see
many people saying they don't have enough time, or they need more
time. So why do some people in the same period do not have any
problems to complete the job, while others find it difficult. So
arranging time helps you avoid clutter, and things are more
organized. And so every job in life will definitely become more
convenient because there is less confusion to solve, then you can
focus on the important things, and let the unimportant part
resolve later... If you have a tight organization of your time and
know-how you use it, you will be able to do more or get better
results.
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Looking at any
organization, planning and arranging a certain amount of time for
each activity with the goal of increasing efficiency and
productivity. Because of the fact, it is also shown that not
everyone can recognize the values of the time. As we can see, only
when people live in happiness, reach the peak of the glory of
victory, or when we have lost a rare opportunity is time really
important, and makes sense.
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Time will bring
joy and happiness to everyone if everyone knows the value of time.
Know to use the right time in all human actions and know-how to
arrange your own time.
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Every time a new
day starts, each person gets the same time in a day. If we can
enjoy the time we have to be able to complete our work completely,
then we have used the time that the Creator gave us. On the
contrary for those who do not know how to use their time means not
mastering the time we have, then these people seem to be busy
forever and not solve any problem. Even, there are those who spend
their time in games that are so useless, do not cultivate their
knowledge nor help people around, do not work, ... they take the
time to sleep or playing around in a pub or casino. There are
people who think they are thinking and planning for the future,
but these thoughts are forever in thoughts, and in dreams, it does
not have a specific date for the execution. So take advantage of
that time to be able to act and fulfill your own desires and
aspirations, not to sit there and think over the years.
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For Buddhists, we
must cherish every second, every minute of the time of our
practice, and encourage our friends and relatives to actively
practice to accumulate wealth, merit to make our lives more
meaningful. So you need to know the purpose of the job you are
doing. Without a goal, you just aimlessly work, no direction at
all. So setting a short-term and long-term goal to work is a good
idea. Write everything we need to do so you can remember and
accomplish your goals. After that, you can mark the completion of
short-term goals once achieved.
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In addition to
listing a number of jobs to perform in the time budget we have,
here are tips that can help you develop and improve your time
management skills, even at work, or in your personal life.
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1- Arrange Neatly.
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This includes
neatness and orderly at your workplace, as well as in your
homeroom. Usually, messing up the stack of documents, letters or
things that are sprawling on the desk, or on the floor will make
your search take longer. If in the office, label the documents and
place them in an area where you can easily take them out and
return them after use. The same things in the house, too, must be
arranged neatly. Get rid of things you no longer need. The clutter
not only takes up space unnecessarily, but it also takes a lot of
our time to dig in that mess to find what you need.
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2- Know To Use
Time
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You should know,
just a little more time to complete a job, but you still stand up
and wander in the absurdity, even chat as if you are idle and
chatting with everybody. That is the wrong time you get. You will
then return to your work and end by doing it sketchily because you
have spent a lot of time doing something different from what you
are doing. And the results of that job can become really messy.
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3- High-Tech Use
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In civilized
times, there are a number of tools that can be used to manage
time, from communication tools to high-tech tools and equipment,
including mobile applications and software. Stimulants or energy
supplements can also help you, such as energy drinks or coffee to
help you stay awake while working, but be sure to drink and use
them moderately.
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4- Rest and Relax
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Managing your own
time doesn't mean cramming all the work into your working day.
Rest and relaxation are also a part of good time management
because you take the time to breathe, exercise and recharge your
energy, then you can perform the next task in the plan effectively
and highly productive. So the way Americans work, every two or
four hours depending on the workplace, is a time called break
times. Because they are aware of the fatigue or exhaustion of
energy will lead to mistakes, so your work will be ineffective,
and it fails the purpose of time management. Keeping your health
and balance in your body is also a necessity if you want to work
harder. If you are sick or have a weak body, you will end up lying
on the bed and not completing any work.
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So, talking about
using time funds is what we know about using our own energy. The
value and meaning of the time budget is so great, but the
perception of each person on this issue is very different. There
are people who always tell themselves to take advantage of every
minute of learning, labor, dedication and then create many good
and important achievements with a feeling of satisfaction and joy
while running with time. But besides that person who doesn't know
how to respect, waste time still has a lot and tends to increase
more, and become a concern for society, especially young people
who do not work, do not cultivate the future for themself, fall
into the vices of society. These are typical signs of people who
don't know how to appreciate themselves, live without
responsibility, and just sit and enjoy.
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The gift of life
is the time budget, perhaps given generously because there are
people who almost never know the one words of appreciation. So
they waste their time, not knowing how to preserve this precious
gift, then the passage of time looks like nothing worth noting,
but it is actually a worm gnawing the soul once you know it,
regret. Therefore, when looking back on the past we often regret
the long series of wasted days and discover that the simplest
things bring the greatest happiness. All the feelings when
recognizing the role, the meaning of time is the biggest
punishment for those who lose, do not appreciate this gift. So
stop for a moment, or stop in your fateful joke, stop and reflect
on what you did before it's too late to turn your head back to
real life. Ask yourself if you have really lived a moment when
faced with life's shining examples, and wonder if you deserve to
be born and receive a gift of time funds.
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Time is really a
miraculous gift of life! Time makes changes and watches us
overcome those changes. Time is also a proof for the deepest true
feelings and at the same time a measure of human personality and
character. Time does not come back, remember and open your arms to
receive, trying to preserve this wonderful gift before it's too
late. Look around to see how much time you need, to live
meaningfully in life and always remember:
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- Don't regret
yesterday, don't expect tomorrow and don't avoid it today.
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Live positively to
deserve this meaningful gift. Living meaning every minute, every
second is precious. Let yesterday be a precious asset, tomorrow is
the mystery that awaits and today is a gift in its own right.
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In short, in this
life, we all have the same amount of time. So, you have to manage
it so that you can accomplish a lot of work within the given time
range. First of all, there must be awareness, time to create life,
create countless changes and time is always called the miraculous
gift of life. This is a great gift, everyone is awarded but not
everyone can keep it, spread the hands to receive it. Time does
not wait for anyone, we should also enjoy every second, every
minute you have. So, if you know this, you should also share the
experience of using your time budget with everyone, letting
everyone know how to turn each person's available time into happy
moments. Best!
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If it is said, in
nature there is something important, it must be said that time is
really important, time is also the property, the treasure of a
man. Time is also the most frightening thing because as we see
every second, a minute, an hour of time, there are many changes,
going away to make the past never recover, it can turn a little
girl, a boy becomes an old woman, an old man, and can also turn
young sprouts into dry piles of wood. At the same time, it helps
us to grow up and to do all the necessary and important things in
life.
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Time is silver,
gold if we cherish and implement divisions and science. In this
way, there are people who become famous, but there are also people
who are poor, it is up to each person to have the will and
determination to master the time to realize their dreams and
ambitions. A human being who appreciates time is the value of
life. Let's live beautiful every day so we can have a bright
future. The fact that people know how to treasure the time, does
not mean to live urgently, to live and enjoy but to live up to
their life and to contribute to society more beautiful and
meaningful.
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In other words, we
must use our finite time budget in accordance with each stage of
human life:
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- Not slow to
regret what we missed yesterday and not rush to be called to be
enjoyed tomorrow.
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Everyone's time
budget has a certain limit, but no one really knows how much of
their own time budget is in this life. Therefore, use your time
wisely and logically to show a healthy lifestyle and a leader of a
self-mastering person. Human life only lives in a certain period
of time, so it must live so as not to regret because the years
passed in waste ...
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